Imagine if there was a metaphorical couple... who somehow ended up married to one another... even though they were from completely different cultures... and spoke completely different languages.

No doubt this couple would have many challenges... because the way they look at things... think about things... and talk about things... would be radically different.

In a very real way... this is what it's like for many... if not most couples... when it comes to the subject of sex... because it's absolutely amazing how radically different men and women can be in the ways they think... feel... and talk about sex. 

It's this disparity that causes significant hurt... confusion... anger... misunderstanding... and disorientation for many couples.

In this important series Tony draws upon...

(1) His personal experience as a man for the past 60 years.

(2) His experience working with innumerable men... as a pastor... a professional counselor... and the Director of The Power of Purity. 

(3) And the wisdom of God's holy and immutable word...

... to help women gain strategic insights and understanding when it comes to men and sex.

The principles Tony shares through this series might be surprising to some... if not shocking... but they will give women unusual... if not unexpected... insights into the world of men and sex.

In this episode Tony shares Principle 11 of the...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex

Imagine if there was a metaphorical couple... who somehow ended up married to one another... even though they were from completely different cultures... and spoke completely different languages.

No doubt this couple would have many challenges... because the way they look at things... think about things... and talk about things... would be radically different.

In a very real way... this is what it's like for many... if not most couples... when it comes to the subject of sex... because it's absolutely amazing how radically different men and women can be in the ways they think... feel... and talk about sex. 

It's this disparity that causes significant hurt... confusion... anger... misunderstanding... and disorientation for many couples.

In this important series Tony draws upon...

(1) His personal experience as a man for the past 60 years.

(2) His experience working with innumerable men... as a pastor... a professional counselor... and the Director of The Power of Purity. 

(3) And the wisdom of God's holy and immutable word...

... to help women gain strategic insights and understanding when it comes to men and sex.

The principles Tony shares through this series might be surprising to some... if not shocking... but they will give women unusual... if not unexpected... insights into the world of men and sex.

In this episode Tony shares Principle 9 & Principle 10 of the...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex

Imagine if there was a metaphorical couple... who somehow ended up married to one another... even though they were from completely different cultures... and spoke completely different languages.

No doubt this couple would have many challenges... because the way they look at things... think about things... and talk about things... would be radically different.

In a very real way... this is what it's like for many... if not most couples... when it comes to the subject of sex... because it's absolutely amazing how radically different men and women can be in the ways they think... feel... and talk about sex. 

It's this disparity that causes significant hurt... confusion... anger... misunderstanding... and disorientation for many couples.

In this important series Tony draws upon...

(1) His personal experience as a man for the past 60 years.

(2) His experience working with innumerable men... as a pastor... a professional counselor... and the Director of The Power of Purity. 

(3) And the wisdom of God's holy and immutable word...

... to help women gain strategic insights and understanding when it comes to men and sex.

The principles Tony shares through this series might be surprising to some... if not shocking... but they will give women unusual... if not unexpected... insights into the world of men and sex.

In this episode Tony shares Principle 7 & Principle 8 of the...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex

This is a BONUS EPISODE of The Power of Purity Podcast!

Elaine is a faithful listener of the POP Podcast... and she recently sent Tony a letter.

As she's listened to the present series of episodes...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex...

Elaine said the following:

"To be perfectly honest, my stomach is in knots and I'm feeling quite triggered after your frank discussion."

In her letter Elaine shares her thoughts... feelings... and questions with Tony:

What does a woman do if she's had sex with her husband an average of 4 times a week, and he still goes out and cheats on her?

What does a woman do when she discovers her husband's "holy facade" is disingenuous because he's been living a lie for many years?

What does a woman do when her husband turns her down for sex because he says the foreplay she needs to get ready "isn't worth the effort to him"?

What does a woman do when her husband is seeking to perpetrate his sexual addiction upon her, often pressuring her for sex several times a day? 

What does a woman do when her husband is using sex in the attempt to fill the hole in his heart that only God can fill?

Elaine asks these... and other tough and heartfelt questions... 

and Tony does his best to speak to these different issues.

Welcome to... Elaine's Letter.

Imagine if there was a metaphorical couple... who somehow ended up married to one another... even though they were from completely different cultures... and spoke completely different languages.

No doubt this couple would have many challenges... because the way they look at things... think about things... and talk about things... would be radically different.

In a very real way... this is what it's like for many... if not most couples... when it comes to the subject of sex... because it's absolutely amazing how radically different men and women can be in the ways they think... feel... and talk about sex. 

It's this disparity that causes significant hurt... confusion... anger... misunderstanding... and disorientation for many couples.

In this important series Tony draws upon...

(1) His personal experience as a man for the past 60 years.

(2) His experience working with innumerable men... as a pastor... a professional counselor... and the Director of The Power of Purity. 

(3) And the wisdom of God's holy and immutable word...

... to help women gain strategic insights and understanding when it comes to men and sex.

The principles Tony shares through this series might be surprising to some... if not shocking... but they will give women unusual... if not unexpected... insights into the world of men and sex.

In this episode Tony shares Principle 6 of the...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex

Imagine if there was a metaphorical couple... who somehow ended up married to one another... even though they were from completely different cultures... and spoke completely different languages.

No doubt this couple would have many challenges... because the way they look at things... think about things... and talk about things... would be radically different.

In a very real way... this is what it's like for many... if not most couples... when it comes to the subject of sex... because it's absolutely amazing how radically different men and women can be in the ways they think... feel... and talk about sex. 

It's this disparity that causes significant hurt... confusion... anger... misunderstanding... and disorientation for many couples.

In this important series Tony draws upon...

(1) His personal experience as a man for the past 60 years.

(2) His experience working with innumerable men... as a pastor... a professional counselor... and the Director of The Power of Purity. 

(3) And the wisdom of God's holy and immutable word...

... to help women gain strategic insights and understanding when it comes to men and sex.

The principles Tony shares through this series might be surprising to some... if not shocking... but they will give women unusual... if not unexpected... insights into the world of men and sex.

In this episode Tony shares Principle 5 of the...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex

Imagine if there was a metaphorical couple... who somehow ended up married to one another... even though they were from completely different cultures... and spoke completely different languages.

No doubt this couple would have many challenges... because the way they look at things... think about things... and talk about things... would be radically different.

In a very real way... this is what it's like for many... if not most couples... when it comes to the subject of sex... because it's absolutely amazing how radically different men and women can be in the ways they think... feel... and talk about sex. 

It's this disparity that causes significant hurt... confusion... anger... misunderstanding... and disorientation for many couples.

In this important series Tony draws upon...

(1) His personal experience as a man for the past 60 years.

(2) His experience working with innumerable men... as a pastor... a professional counselor... and the Director of The Power of Purity. 

(3) And the wisdom of God's holy and immutable word...

... to help women gain strategic insights and understanding when it comes to men and sex.

The principles Tony shares through this series might be surprising to some... if not shocking... but they will give women unusual... if not unexpected... insights into the world of men and sex.

In this episode Tony shares Principle 3 & Principle 4 of the...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex

Imagine if there was a metaphorical couple... who somehow ended up married to one another... even though they were from completely different cultures... and spoke completely different languages.

No doubt this couple would have many challenges... because the way they look at things... think about things... and talk about things... would be radically different.

In a very real way... this is what it's like for many... if not most couples... when it comes to the subject of sex... because it's absolutely amazing how radically different men and women can be in the ways they think... feel... and talk about sex. 

It's this disparity that causes significant hurt... confusion... anger... misunderstanding... and disorientation for many couples.

In this important series Tony draws upon...

(1) His personal experience as a man for the past 60 years.

(2) His experience working with innumerable men... as a pastor... a professional counselor... and the Director of The Power of Purity. 

(3) And the wisdom of God's holy and immutable word...

... to help women gain strategic insights and understanding when it comes to men and sex.

The principles Tony shares through this series might be surprising to some... if not shocking... but they will give women unusual... if not unexpected... insights into the world of men and sex.

In this episode Tony shares Principle 2 of the...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex

Imagine if there was a metaphorical couple... who somehow ended up married to one another... even though they were from completely different cultures... and spoke completely different languages.

No doubt this couple would have many challenges... because the way they look at things... think about things... and talk about things... would be radically different.

In a very real way... this is what it's like for many... if not most couples... when it comes to the subject of sex... because it's absolutely amazing how radically different men and women can be in the ways they think... feel... and talk about sex. 

It's this disparity that causes significant hurt... confusion... anger... misunderstanding... and disorientation for many couples.

In this important series Tony draws upon...

(1) His personal experience as a man for the past 60 years.

(2) His experience working with innumerable men... as a pastor... a professional counselor... and the Director of The Power of Purity. 

(3) And the wisdom of God's holy and immutable word...

... to help women gain strategic insights and understanding when it comes to men and sex.

The principles Tony shares through this series might be surprising to some... if not shocking... but they will give women unusual... if not unexpected... insights into the world of men and sex.

In this episode Tony shares Principle 1 of the...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex

Imagine if there was a metaphorical couple... who somehow ended up married to one another... even though they were from completely different cultures... and spoke completely different languages.

No doubt this couple would have many challenges... because the way they look at things... think about things... and talk about things... would be radically different.

In a very real way... this is what it's like for many... if not most couples... when it comes to the subject of sex... because it's absolutely amazing how radically different men and women can be in the ways they think... feel... and talk about sex. 

It's this disparity that causes significant hurt... confusion... anger... misunderstanding... and disorientation for many couples.

In this important series Tony draws upon...

(1) His personal experience as a man for the past 60 years.

(2) His experience working with innumerable men... as a pastor... a professional counselor... and the Director of The Power of Purity. 

(3) And the wisdom of God's holy and immutable word...

... to help women gain strategic insights and understanding when it comes to men and sex.

The principles Tony shares through this series might be surprising to some... if not shocking... but they will give women unusual... if not unexpected... insights into the world of men and sex.

In this episode Tony shares 8 observations in the way of Introduction to the series...

12 Things Every Wife Should Know About Her Husband When It Comes To Sex

When it comes to sex... sometimes it seems like...

* Men are from Mars... and Women are from Venus!

* Men are microwaves... and Women are crockpots!

What's the deal?

In addition... sex is one of the greatest challenges that many couples struggle with... and often causes a significant amount of pain... hurt... confusion... misunderstanding... and disorientation in many marriages.  

What do men need to understand about their wives... and what do wives need to understand about their husbands... when it comes to sex? 

In thisparticular series Tony shares 10 principles that will help men to better understand their wife... and in the nextseries Tony will share 12 principles that will help women better understand their husband.

It's possible to "close the gap" that often exists between husbands and wives when it comes to sex!

In this episode Tony shares the second half of Principle 9 and Principle 10 of the...

10 Things Every Husband Should Know About His Wife When It Comes To Sex

When it comes to sex... sometimes it seems like...

* Men are from Mars... and Women are from Venus!

* Men are microwaves... and Women are crockpots!

What's the deal?

In addition... sex is one of the greatest challenges that many couples struggle with... and often causes a significant amount of pain... hurt... confusion... misunderstanding... and disorientation in many marriages.  

What do men need to understand about their wives... and what do wives need to understand about their husbands... when it comes to sex? 

In this particular series Tony shares 10 principles that will help men to better understand their wife... and in the nextseries Tony will share 12 principles that will help women better understand their husband.

It's possible to "close the gap" that often exists between husbands and wives when it comes to sex!

In this episode Tony shares Principle 8 and the first part of Principle 9 of the...

10 Things Every Husband Should Know About His Wife When It Comes To Sex

When it comes to sex... sometimes it seems like...

* Men are from Mars... and Women are from Venus!

* Men are microwaves... and Women are crockpots!

What's the deal?

In addition... sex is one of the greatest challenges that many couples struggle with... and often causes a significant amount of pain... hurt... confusion... misunderstanding... and disorientation in many marriages.  

What do men need to understand about their wives... and what do wives need to understand about their husbands... when it comes to sex? 

In this particular series Tony shares 10 principles that will help men to better understand their wife... and in the nextseries Tony will share 12 principles that will help women better understand their husband.

It's possible to "close the gap" that often exists between husbands and wives when it comes to sex!

In this episode Tony shares Principle 6 and Principle 7 of the...

10 Things Every Husband Should Know About His Wife When It Comes To Sex

When it comes to sex... sometimes it seems like...

* Men are from Mars... and Women are from Venus!

* Men are microwaves... and Women are crockpots!

What's the deal?

In addition... sex is one of the greatest challenges that many couples struggle with... and often causes a significant amount of pain... hurt... confusion... misunderstanding... and disorientation in many marriages.  

What do men need to understand about their wives... and what do wives need to understand about their husbands... when it comes to sex? 

In this particular series Tony shares 10 principles that will help men to better understand their wife... and in the nextseries Tony will share 12 principles that will help women better understand their husband.

It's possible to "close the gap" that often exists between husbands and wives when it comes to sex!

In this episode Tony shares Principle 4 and Principle 5 of the...

10 Things Every Husband Should Know About His Wife When It Comes To Sex

When it comes to sex... sometimes it seems like...

* Men are from Mars... and Women are from Venus!

* Men are microwaves... and Women are crockpots!

What's the deal?

In addition... sex is one of the greatest challenges that many couples struggle with... and often causes a significant amount of pain... hurt... confusion... misunderstanding... and disorientation in many marriages.  

What do men need to understand about their wives... and what do wives need to understand about their husbands... when it comes to sex? 

In this particular series Tony shares 10 principles that will help men to better understand their wife... and in the nextseries Tony will share 12 principles that will help women better understand their husband.

It's possible to "close the gap" that often exists between husbands and wives when it comes to sex!

In this episode Tony shares Principle 3 of the...

10 Things Every Husband Should Know About His Wife When It Comes To Sex

When it comes to sex... sometimes it seems like...

* Men are from Mars... and Women are from Venus!

* Men are microwaves... and Women are crockpots!

What's the deal?

In addition... sex is one of the greatest challenges that many couples struggle with... and often causes a significant amount of pain... hurt... confusion... misunderstanding... and disorientation in many marriages.  

What do men need to understand about their wives... and what do wives need to understand about their husbands... when it comes to sex? 

In this particular series Tony shares 10 principles that will help men to better understand their wife... and in the nextseries Tony will share 12 principles that will help women better understand their husband.

It's possible to "close the gap" that often exists between husbands and wives when it comes to sex!

In this episode Tony shares Principle 2 of the...

10 Things Every Husband Should Know About His Wife When It Comes To Sex

When it comes to sex... sometimes it seems like...

* Men are from Mars... and Women are from Venus!

* Men are microwaves... and Women are crockpots!

What's the deal?

In addition... sex is one of the greatest challenges that many couples struggle with... and often causes a significant amount of pain... hurt... confusion... misunderstanding... and disorientation in many marriages.  

What do men need to understand about their wives... and what do wives need to understand about their husbands... when it comes to sex? 

In this particular series Tony shares 10 principles that will help men to better understand their wife... and in the nextseries Tony will share 12 principles that will help women better understand their husband.

It's possible to "close the gap" that often exists between husbands and wives when it comes to sex!

In this episode Tony shares Principle 1 of the...

10 Things Every Husband Should Know About His Wife When It Comes To Sex

When it comes to sex... sometimes it seems like...

* Men are from Mars... and Women are from Venus!

* Men are microwaves... and Women are crockpots!

What's the deal?

In addition... sex is one of the greatest challenges that many couples struggle with... and often causes a significant amount of pain... hurt... confusion... misunderstanding... and disorientation in many marriages.  

What do men need to understand about their wives... and what do wives need to understand about their husbands... when it comes to sex? 

In this particular series Tony shares 10 principles that will help men to better understand their wife... and in the next series Tony will share 12 principles that will help women better understand their husband.

It's possible to "close the gap" that often exists between husbands and wives when it comes to sex!

In this episode Tony shares 7 observations to introduce this new series...

10 Things Every Husband Should Understand About His Wife When It Comes To Sex

Tony recently had the opportunity to present a seminar at an Iron Sharpens Iron Conference attended by over 500 men.  Most of these men had never heard of Tony Ingrassia... or The Power of Purity.  

Because of this... Tony put together a presentation entitled... Purity Is Possible... and shared 9 essential pieces of the "purity puzzle".  

In other words... these are 9 concepts that a man is going to have to understand and apply to his life when he gets really serious about becoming a man of sexual purity. 

The description of the seminar was this:

It's possible for Christian men to bring their sexual gift under the authority of Christ, and to learn to control sex instead of being controlled by sex!

In these episodes (113 - 116) Tony shares an overview of the seminar he presented at the Iron Sharpens Iron Conference.

In this episode Tony shares principles 6 through 9 of the 9 principles of the "purity puzzle".

Iron Sharpens Iron

Relevant Practical Ministry to Men

Tony recently had the opportunity to present a seminar at an Iron Sharpens Iron Conference attended by over 500 men.  Most of these men had never heard of Tony Ingrassia... or The Power of Purity.  

Because of this... Tony put together a presentation entitled... Purity Is Possible... and shared 9 essential pieces of the "purity puzzle".  

In other words... these are 9 concepts that a man is going to have to understand and apply to his life when he gets really serious about becoming a man of sexual purity. 

The description of the seminar was this:

It's possible for Christian men to bring their sexual gift under the authority of Christ, and to learn to control sex instead of being controlled by sex!

In these episodes (113 - 116) Tony shares an overview of the seminar he presented at the Iron Sharpens Iron Conference.

In this episode Tony shares the 4th and 5th principle of the 9 principles of the "purity puzzle".

Iron Sharpens Iron

Relevant Practical Ministry to Men